Our Team

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Wendi Rees, Founder, President and CEO

I was born a Baptist preacher's daughter.  I grew up in a very conservative, strict religious home with a list of rules I was expected to follow with no question or argument.  These rules were things like no "mixed" swimming (boys and girls swimming together), and no going to movies at the theater.  Girls could only wear dresses (not pants or jeans); and we could not wear shirts with writing on them because it made boys look in places where they shouldn't look.  These are just a few of the rules, but I am sure you get the picture.  I was told these rules were meant to protect me and to make God pleased with me.  However, there was no rule that could protect me from my father.   

At the age of 11, my father began to molest me in our home when my mom would go out of town to visit her parents.  He warned me that if I told her, or anyone else for that matter, that it would break up my family, and we wouldn't be together anymore.  So, I kept this secret hidden deep within my heart where it began to take root and turn into bitterness, anger and rebellion.  At the age of 14, our family broke up anyway, because my parents ended up getting a divorce.  They had become good friends with a couple in our church (apparently very good friends) and decided to swap marriage partners with them.  So my dad married the woman, and my mom married the man and life became even more confusing for me.  You see, through this entire time of being sexually abused by my father and my parents switching partners with another couple, I was still expected to go by these strict rules that had been put in place to "protect" me.  I didn't understand why I wasn't allowed to wear pants or go to the movies, but my parents seemed to be allowed to do anything they wanted with no consequences.  The only ones that were hurting here were the kids caught in the middle.  

One night, after a heated argument with my soon-to-be stepmother, my dad came home to find us in quite a battle.  To my surprise, right in front of me, she gave my dad an ultimatum and told him he had to choose between her and me.  Well, now I could see the light at the end of the tunnel because this was surely her ticket home.  There was no contest between his love for his firstborn and some woman he had just met at our church a few years earlier.  The next day at school, the cheerleaders were having a bake sale.  I was stirring the nacho cheese when I saw my dad walking down the hallway.  I was so excited that he had come to apologize to me and tell me that he had sent her away, so I ran up and gave him a big hug.  However, he just stood there, opened his jacket, handed me a plane ticket and said "You are going back to live with your mother, and you are leaving tonight."  At that moment, my life changed forever.  That rejection would follow me for decades.    

Two years after going to live with my mother, at the age of 16, my stepfather began to molest me as well.  It wasn't long before my self esteem was down to nothing and I was looking for anyone to love me at any cost.  I became promiscuous and allowed guys to treat me any way they pleased because I was so desperate for real love and acceptance.  When I was 18, I got involved in the strip club industry.  Most of the girls I danced with were addicted to alcohol or drugs, but my addiction was quite different.  You see, I had heard many sermons on those things, so I never tried alcohol or drugs while I was dancing.  I was addicted to the way I felt while I was on stage.  You see, these men could only look at me; they couldn't touch me without serious consequences from the bouncers I worked with.  So when I danced, I felt safe and in control.  This was a feeling I hadn't felt in my own home since the age of 11.  I never knew a father who would warn the boy who picked me up for my first date of what would happen if he touched me in any inappropriate way.  But the one I needed to protect me was the one hurting me the most.  At least on stage, I knew no one could get to me.  It was better than being at home.  This addiction is what kept me there for almost two years.  Then one day, God decided to get my attention in a mighty way.   

While I was getting ready to dance one night, I suddenly had a horrible pain in my stomach.  The pain got worse for over 20 minutes.  I found myself praying and asking God to take the pain away...........but He didn't.  The pain got so bad that I really thought I could die, so I began to pray that God would just take my life quickly..........but He didn't.  After several more minutes of excruciating pain, I finally did the only other thing I knew to do.  I made a deal with God.  I told Him that if He would take away my pain, then I would never dance again........within 60 seconds the pain was completely gone!    

My dad did a lot of things to hurt me in my life, but he also taught me a lot about the Bible.  I knew that if I made a vow to God, then I had no choice but to keep it.  So I never danced again!  Glory to God!  Today, I go into strip clubs and minister to the girls there who always ask the question, "How did you get out?"  This opens up a door for me to share the wonderful news of God's grace and mercy with them.  I love how God includes stories in the Bible of women like Rahab, a prostitute, NOT a former prostitute, but a current prostitute that saves her whole family by risking her life to hide the spies simply because of her faith in God.  This faith was notable because not only is she the only woman mentioned by name in the faith chapter of the Bible, Hebrews 11, but she was also grafted in to the lineage of Jesus Christ.  I want to live a life of great faith in God that allows me to rise above all fears and insecurities so that I may continue to testify of the powerful change and work He has done in my life.   

Everywhere I go that God allows me to share my testimony, there is at least one girl who confides in me that she has been through the same thing or something similar.  It is difficult for her to hear me say that forgiveness is the first step to true healing, but it is the absolute truth and the only way to eliminate the bitterness and resentment that we tend to hold on to when we have been hurt so deeply.  I am so thankful that God has chosen me to be used in such a way where I can share His everlasting love, forgiveness and grace to those He allows me to minister to.  If your story resembles mine in any way...if you have experienced rejection, abandonment or abuse of any kind, I pray that you will reach out and ask for help today.  You are NOT alone!  God is standing with His arms wide open waiting for you to take that first step of faith in believing that He really wants to heal you.  I don't have all the answers but I certainly know the One who does.  He knows exactly what you need and He's waiting to meet your need if you will only reach out to Him for help.

I pray that you find the peace, acceptance and unconditional love that I've found, which only comes through an intimate relationship with Jesus Christ.  He has a purpose for everything He allows or brings into our lives, and He can heal your hurt as He has mine, and use it to bless others.  May your life be blessed and full of peace, and may you walk in the purposes for which you were created.

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Loretta Ayres, Program Director

Loretta was born and raised in East Texas and one of four sisters. She is married to Ron Ayres, has four children and seven grandchildren. She is a member of Tyler Metro Church and is part of the Ladies Ministry Team. Her career has been working in office management and bookkeeping until she joined the Magdalene Ministries team in June of 2018. Her desire is to be an encouragement to others and see lives touched by Jesus' love and grace. Her favorite thing to do with her spare time is to spend time making memories with her friends and family.

Other Board Members

Jim Rees

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 Jim has lived in Tyler for over 16 years with his wife, Wendi and their 4 children. He has a passion to help others and has been able to accomplish that in different areas of his life. He is the President of Stoneway Financial and has been in the financial industry for over 25 years. 

Chris Legg

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 Chris Legg, LPC, is the Lead Pastor at South Spring Baptist Church in Tyler, TX. He also leads the team at Alethia Family Counseling Center (offering counseling, speaking and business consulting). Chris and his lovely wife Ginger have been honeymooning since 1993 and have been blessed with five great kids. He has published dozens of articles on various topics on his website and a Discipleship program for men – especially fathers, called The Gauntlet. Learn more about SSBC at www.southspring.org More about Alethia at www.alethiacounseling.com Contact Chris, read any of his articles, and look for other resources at his website at www.chrismlegg.com 

Michelle Lopez

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 After working with Child Protective Services for over 26 years, Michelle retired in order to help The Magdalene Home and Chosen One Adoption. Michelle is a licensed Master Level Social Worker and a Licensed Child Placing Agency Administrator. She has a heart for the Lord and sews her time into helping others including being the Administrator for The Magdalene Home and Chosen One Adoption. She is willing to serve where ever and however the Lord leads. She and her husband are active members of The Remnant Church where they help oversee small groups and prayer teams. 

Allen Gardner

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 I have a wife and three children. I have a few good friends. I like to hunt and fish. These things are most important to me. 

I own a successful law firm in Tyler but strive to be much more than a lawyer with a good resume. I am the same every day, good and bad, trial or no trial, working in a law firm, working on a duck blind, or being with my family.